Everyone wants to be good in bed — but not many guys take an active approach to making this happen. The good news is that becoming a better lover is easier than you might think. Here are a few tips to keep in mind for your next roll in the hay.
- Understand that she’s unique. Just because your ex liked or disliked something doesn’t mean that she feels the same way. This is just one reason why communication is key to good sex. Of course, if you really want this tip to work, you need to treat her like she’s unique, as well. From giving compliments to truly paying attention to what she likes, there are many ways to do this — and they all lead to a better experience for both of you.
- Take it slow. Assuming that your partner is always going to get into the mood at the same speed you do is one of the most common sex mistakes in the book. Besides, foreplay is about more than just a good start — it is key to a good finish, as well, as it tends to lead to better orgasms for both partners. Dedicate a little bit more time to foreplay and you will both be able to tell the difference.
- Focus on her. This might sound obvious — but surveys have shown that a surprisingly high number of both men and women report not focusing on their partner’s pleasure! The best sex is reciprocal, though, and you can help make sure that it goes this way.
- Hit the gym. Physical fitness helps improve male sexual performance and stamina. Moreover, looking good and feeling confident are pretty important, too. A good diet and a healthy lifestyle will also help in these regards — and even though this isn’t the sexiest tip out there, it’s an effective one.
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